3 tips for better Sensual Massage Experience

Today we invited Bella from Peachy massage give us a hint of her secret in sensual massage….please enjoy..

Enhance your sensual massages in three steps.

Sensual massage is something that anyone can indulge in and benefit from.

It is relaxing, it can take the mind off aches and pains, if appropriate it can also be a fantastic form of foreplay. It is also a skill that will be appreciated every time you use it. Follow these tips and your massage partner will very quickly come to consider you as a master of sensual massage.

1. Take Time to Set the Mood.

A quality sensual massage begins well before you ever touch your partner. Take time to prepare and the experience will be much better. Begin by removing anything that may interrupt the experience. Turn off your phone and make yourself unavailable to everyone but your massage partner. Make the atmosphere as comfortable as possible by turning down the lights and playing soft background music. The music should be relaxing, but nothing that your partner can tune into or focus on. No lyrics or foreign lyrics is best – you want your massage partners focus to be on your hands, not on the music. Ideally, after the massage, your massage partner will remember the music being pleasant or relaxing, but would not be able to name it. If you have them, candles add a fantastic ambience, and never discount the benefits of an oil burner to add aromatherapy to your massage.

Prepare a clean and comfortable surface for your massage partner to lie on. A massage table is ideal, but sensual massage on the bed or floor is fine, so long as you are sure to make the whole atmosphere one of complete relaxation. Together with the lighting, the soft music and the intoxicating smell of burning incense or oils, you are appealing to your massage partners senses of sight, sound and smell, and preparing them for the rewarding addition of touch to the pleasure cocktail of sensual massage.

2. The Sensual Massage

Begin your sensual massage with your partner lying on his or her stomach. Gently knead the shoulders and upper back to help remove any tension in these areas. Shoulders in particular can become very tight during a days work, particularly for those who spend most of the day over a keyboard. The addition of massage oil will enhance this experience considerably. (if you would like to give your partner a Japanese style sensual massage, you can consider use nuru gel instead of massage oil, for nuru massage skills, please learn more at Nuru massage guide) If you have your preparation right, the entire focus of your massage partner will be on your touch. Don’t feel you have to apply much force – gentle strokes up and down the entire length of the back will have them tingling and heighten their sensitivity.

Getting a facial massage is also a real treat. Use your index fingers to massage gently around the eye sockets. Work in small circles, but keep your touch light to fully cover the many pressure points around our face and head. Don’t forget to pay attention to the feet. Feet are considered one of the bodies’ hottest erogenous zones, and after carrying us around all day respond to some special attention. Use one hand to cradle the foot and the other to work the toes, arch and heel.

As you progress with your massage you can bring other parts of your body into play than just your hands and fingers. Using a full forearm to stroke the length of your partners back can be very effective. Men love woman using their breasts as part of the massage. When giving a sensual massage it is important to remember not to ‘dive in to the good bits’, but rather work the entire body and tantalize your massage partner.

3. Listen to your massage partner

Listen to the breathing of your massage partner for clues as to what is relaxing, and what is exciting. How you respond to these cues will depend on how you want your evening to proceed. Once you have them naked on a massage table, a skilled masseur can pretty much dictate how things will go. Massage can be so relaxing that your massage partner drifts off to sleep, or it can be the perfect foreplay to a memorable sexual encounter.

Whether you want to learn sensual massage to add spice to your existing relationship, to use in future relationships, or if you prefer to trade massage for stress relief or fun, keep these tips in mind and you will be a master in your field in no time.

Author: Bella Kim

Thanks for Bella from Peachy Massage Sydney share her experience in Sensual massage.