We’ve dicussed about happy ending massage for many times and also learned how to perform a massage for your male partener. However, is Happyending massage just for male? Certainly not, woman can enjoy a happy ending too! Today we are going to give you a complete guide to female happy ending massage.
A massages are just about perfect. They’re soothing and calming. They leave your body feeling profoundly relaxed. You can ease into a state of pure calm.
Giving a woman a happy ending massage is a really great way to make her feel special, taken care of, and sexually satisfied.
It’s the kind of thing that can help you stand apart, because not every woman has had a night that was entirely about her pleasure. Especially not something long that she can ease into and immerse herself in all the amazing things your hands can do to her.
If you want to treat her to the ultimate sensual experience, these are the steps to do it.
Create a right vibe at Your home
If you want to massage her at night, try to keep the lights dim.
You will want to see what you are doing, but the dimmer will make her feel more immersive. It can also help her reduce her awareness of completely taking off her clothes, which will help her enjoy the experience more.
In addition, dim lighting can also convey a sense of sex and intimacy. If you are going to massage her during the day, please don’t try to darken everything. Let the sun shine through the window. Natural lighting makes the room bathed incisively and vividly. Moreover, if the sun warms her body, it will also be a very good feeling.
Set the room to a comfortable temperature. She will be naked and oily, so make sure it is really warm. You don’t want her to shorten the massage time because of the cold. Make sure the room smells good too. She would lie there with her eyes closed for a long time, so she would be keenly aware of any smell in the room.
I like to use scented candles, but you can also wear colognes that she really likes. Sound is also very important. It is perfectly possible to remain silent, but I personally prefer to play soft music (my mucsic is Next best thing by Floor city).
Use the right Massage blanket
I always thought that owning a massage table would be a luxury. I think so, but it’s easier than I realized. A decent massage bed is surprisingly expensive, and because it can be folded into the size of a large suitcase, it is very compact and relatively easy to store.
If massage will become a regular part of your life and you have enough space, please prepare a massage bed. It is effortlessly waterproof, sturdy and comfortable, and you can walk around it, making it easier to massage her entire body. If you don’t have a massage table, the best place is your bed.
The bed is fully usable, but the problem is that it is not waterproof. A good massage method involves a lot of oil, and you don’t want to be stingy because it is worried about the sheets. The waterproof pad can work. If you have a sex blanket, put it on the bed first.
Get the Right Massage Oil
You can give her a quick backrub without using massage oils. But if you want to give her a long, sensual, and arousing massage, you’ll need to use some.
Massage oil is practical because it makes massaging her a lot easier. Your hands will be a lot less tired by the end if they can glide smoothly over her skin. They reduce friction, which means she won’t get uncomfortable if you massage any part of her for too long.
But they’re also part of the whole experience. The feeling of oiled up hands running across your body is incredibly arousing. It gives the massage a great tactile element that really takes it up a notch.
Standard massage oil works really well. If you want a really simple and natural option, you can also use coconut oil or sweet almond oil.
Lube works well, too. But make sure you’re using silicone-based lube. Some water-based lubes aren’t bad but they can start to get a little tacky after being rubbed in for a while.
Massage bars are fun, too. They’re solid but they soften when rubbed. You can rub it across her body until she’s oiled up enough and then massage her with your hands.
Recently, Mr. Austin and I have started using a massage candle. That one takes a little patience and planning because you need to light it and let the flame burn for about half an hour before you can use it. But feeling the warm melted oil drip from the candle onto my skin feels so damn good it’s worth it.
Whatever you choose — and there’s no reason not to use more than one kind over the course of a massage — make sure you have a lot of it on hand. It’s okay, to get things a little wet and messy, so use as much as you need.
Begin the massage
Set aside plenty of time so she doesn’t feel like you’re rushing through the massage.
You want to give her all the time she needs to fully relax, bask in the pleasurable sensations you’re giving her, get incredibly aroused, and work up to a really strong orgasm.
Start with a lighter touch. Rub her shoulders, her back, her thighs, and her calves. Think of it as literally warming her up — you’re not using a lot of hand strength, just letting her feel the warmth of your skin against hers.
Once you’ve rubbed down her whole body, you can start rubbing with a little more pressure. Knead her firmly to release the tension in her muscles.
Don’t move across her body too quickly. Spend time massaging one spot at a time. There’s no firm rule for this, but aim to massage one part of her body for a few minutes before massaging another one.
Rub from top to bottom
There’s no set order to a massage, but a good place to start is her shoulders.
There’s a good chance she’s carrying a lot of tension there and releasing it will give her a big sense of relief. Your fingers lightly grazing her neck will also start arousing her.
From there, massage her back, starting with the shoulder blades and working down to her lower back.
Go over her back a few times and then move on to her thighs. Rub the back of her thigh and her outer thigh before massaging down to her calves.
After that, work your way back up. This time, include her ass. Massage it the way you would her back, kneading it with your hands, rubbing your palm firmly against it.
Massage her entire body a few times, making sure not to power through too quickly. You’ll get to her pussy soon enough, so there’s no need to rush.
Tease Her
When she’s fully aroused, moaning under your touch, and ready to turn up the heat, start massaging her thighs.
This time, though, give some attention to her inner thighs, too.
While you do it, make sure your hands occasionally graze her pussy.
Once you’ve teased her a bit, work her pussy into the end of your massage. Rub her thighs and her ass like you were before, but give her lips a few long rubs, too.
Stimulating her pussy and then moving your hand away to massage other parts of her body is going to intensify her horniness. All that teasing and buildup is going to create so much anticipation she’ll practically be squirming.
Please Her
Once you’ve teased her to your satisfaction, start pleasuring her pussy.
Rub it softly with your fingers. You can use your other hand to hold on to her ass or grip her thigh. Or you can use it to finger her slowly.
But don’t finish her off yet. You’re working on gradually building up her pleasure. Plus, a lot of women can’t have strong orgasms from that position, so you risk giving her a smaller climax.
When you can see that she’s getting closer and you’re getting stronger reactions from her, ask her to turn over and lie on her back.
From there, you should focus on her clit. Use the fingers on one hand to spread her lips open and use your other fingers to either rub her clit directly or run your fingers around it.
Give Her a Happy Ending
You want the happy ending to be the cherry at the top of this massage. You don’t just want to make her come — you want to give her an intense, deeply satisfying orgasm. The best way to do that is to let her build up to it gradually.
Don’t use too much pressure when you’re touching her clit, and don’t rub it too vigorously. A slow, soft touch is going to help her pleasure intensify instead of releasing it all too early.
If she needs you to press a little harder or go a little faster to actually reach a climax, that’s fine. Just make sure you start things off lightly.
The other thing you need to do to give her a really big orgasm is keep things steady. Don’t switch up what you’re doing too much. Just keep giving her the same stimulation and let her focus on it without getting distracted.
Pay attention to the cues she’s giving you — how she’s moaning, how heavy her breathing is, and all the “fucks” and “yeses” she’s uttering. When you can tell she’s getting close, don’t change a thing — keep doing exactly what you’ve been doing. Resist the temptation to speed up or go hard. If she needs that, she’ll tell you. Otherwise, what you’re doing is working so keep it up.
That kind of stimulation is your best chance at giving her a powerful orgasm, a long orgasm, and the kind of orgasm that leaves her feeling spent, tired, and well loved.
Give her a bath
After giving her a happy ending, use a warm, wet cloth to wash the massage oils off her body. Then use a towel to dry her off.
Don’t just send her off to the bathroom to clean herself. Doing it for her is going to make her feel pampered and it’s fantastic aftercare. It lets her enjoy a few more great sensations and will make you seem more present.
That’s much better than ending things abruptly after her orgasm.
A perfect finish
A happy ending massage is a great way to treat your lady.
If you want to give her something special for a night, show your appreciation for what a great partner she is, or just give her a really satisfying experience, this is the perfect choice.
Most women love sensuality and intimacy. We also love to come. A happy ending massage gives us the best of both worlds.
Article by Emma Austin